LIFE: The birthplace of joy


I don't really watch a lot of TV but I love watching TED. Here's a great talk about expanding one's perspective... truly inspiring.


"When you ask people about love, they tell you about heartbreak."




"Maybe data are just stories with soul." - Brene Brown


This is just beautiful: 
"Courage, the original definition of courage, when it first came into the English language --it's from the Latin word cor, meaning heart -- and the original definition was to tell the story of who you are with your whole heart. And so these folks had, very simply, the courage to be imperfect. They had the compassion to be kind to themselves first and then to others, because, as it turns out, we can't practice compassion with other people if we can't treat ourselves kindly. And the last was they had connection, and -- this was the hard part -- as a result of authenticity, they were willing to let go of who they thought they should be in order to be who they were, which you have to absolutely do that for connection.


The other thing that they had in common was this: They fully embraced vulnerability. They believed that what made them vulnerable made them beautiful. They didn't talk about vulnerability being comfortable, nor did they really talk about it being excruciating -- as I had heard it earlier in the shame interviewing. They just talked about it being necessary.They talked about the willingness to say, "I love you" first, the willingness to do something where there are no guarantees, the willingness to breathe through waiting for the doctor to call after your mammogram. They're willing to invest in a relationship that may or may not work out. They thought this was fundamental."




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  1. Hi Kumi! Hope you don't mind me putting the quotes/paragraphs/excerpt from the talk in my Tumblr blog. :) I'll credit you as inspiration for doing the post. :)

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